I love making new connections. Safety is a baseline for pleasure- I want us both to feel confident about our security and privacy, so that we can give our full attention to the pressing business of getting to know one another. References from other providers are my favorite, so please do include at least one in your message. Newcomers, fear not- and welcome! Drop me a line that you’d like an alternative screening method, and we’ll take it from there.

Protonmail user? Ask for an encrypted option in your form submission, and I’ll follow up with you from mine.

Reference requests from fellow providers can be sent directly to